What An Entanglement Web We All Weave
Everybody is going crazy about the entanglement Will and Jada, and I can’t forget August Alsina, were allegedly in. Entanglement is defined as a complicated relationship. After Jada described her situation as such, everyone jumped right on it. I swear if I had a dollar for every time that word has been used over the last couple of weeks, I would be rich. We all have entanglements.
It is a joke to so many, but the biggest joke is that so many are trapped in their own entanglements. Maybe it’s the fact that seeing someone else in it allows them not to think about their own situation. Or maybe people are in denial about their own relationships, and just want to judge someone else’s situation. Or maybe it is just that misery loves company. I’ll take misery loves company for $200
Relationships are entanglements
Now relationships are an entanglement in themselves. It is hard enough to make it work with just the two of you. It gets that much harder when friends and family get involved from the outside. So imagine the addition of another intimate person. You might as well throw the whole relationship away.
Let’s keep it all the way 100! Jada is not the first or the last person to be entangled. This is a mistake too many of us have made at one point or another. Even when we are the problem, instead of working on ourselves, we just tag someone new in. This has never fixed anything, in fact it only makes matters worse.
Jada admitted that she was in a hurt space then. Her hurt was then passed on to others which proves that hurt people break people. You should not open one door until the other one is completely closed. Then you should heal, all by yourself, before letting anyone else in. Forget what they told you about the best way to get over an old flame is by lighting a new one. Just remember if you do it like that, you might get burned.
Now when you finish laughing at Jada and nem situation, step back and look at yourself. Ask yourself are you in an entanglement? The answer might surprise you. And deeper than that you might start wondering who is laughing at you.