The Law of Attraction
She said she didn’t know what to do. It’s like she just kept attracting the same kind of men. Either all men are the same or only the same kind liked her. For her, it was either pick one of them or be by herself. And for her being alone wasn’t an option.
The truth is she was so focused on who was attracted to her she didn’t think about who she was attracted to. It didn’t matter who tried to talk to her, slide in her DM, or shoot their shot, she had to accept them. The problem wasn’t that the same type of men approached her. The problem was she kept accepting them.
For most of us, it is hard to admit that we are the problem. We don’t want to be the reason our relationships aren’t working. It can’t be me, it has to be them is the typical mindset. However, I tell people all the time when a relationship ends it’s never just one person’s fault. You did something wrong even if all you did was pick them.
It is important to recognize what you’re attracted to. And not just the good but the bad as well. Just as important as the physical traits are emotional traits. Often what looks good to us, isn’t always good for us. Most times we will pick somebody beautiful on the outside, and ugly on the inside.
You might be the problem!
Also, it is important to make sure you have you together before adding anyone else to your mix. It is impossible to choose what is good for you when you’re not in a good space. Until you have resolved your issues anyone you choose is going to be an issue.
Remember no one has more control over who comes into your life than you. The moment you become attracted to happy, healthy love the sooner you will attract it. Don’t just break up with the people also break up with the thing that drew you to them. Once that happens you gain control and dictate the law of attraction.