Lauren Adley

To what extent can we really work on improving ourselves? Are there better versions of ourselves which we haven’t discovered? What answer is your mind providing to these questions?

You probably think you are already the best you can be. But there is always that best version of ourselves hidden somewhere right within us. Only a few people are aware of this and not so many people become that best version of themselves.

How to become your best self

If you have been trying to become your best self, then this guide is going to be very helpful for you in discovering and bringing out the best in you. Let’s consider some ways through which we can make this happen and have our lives better shaped.

1. Think bigger

Great minds think very big. Begin with the pattern of your thinking. Think the way great minds think.

The thoughts that go on in your mind will go a long way in determining what you do practically and what view of yourself you have afterward. Think positively and every time, you should know assuredly in your mind that you can achieve anything you want.

By registering positive things in your mind, your whole being will work towards becoming that great person who you picture yourself to be.

Think Bigger for becoming your best self

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2. Motivate yourself

You will realize that motivation has a great influence on you. Even when things don’t go as you expect, motivation keeps you going and it helps you maintain your stand until you reach your goals.

You can motivate yourself by repeatedly reading out aloud some motivational quotes. You can also listen to great motivational speakers. Attend seminars that will motivate you for greatness in life.

Motivate yourself for becoming your best self

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3. Believe in yourself

Believing in yourself is very important. Believe you can be that great person. Look at yourself and see a successful individual. Do things that demonstrate your better self. Attempt entirely new things and believe that you will do them well.

Don’t go around with low self-esteem, thinking that you are a failure or a person of a low standard. Be sure that you have all it takes to be whoever you want to be.

4. Set goals for yourself

Tie every single thing you do to a goal. It helps you to be naturally more focused and determined. Write down the things you want to achieve within any certain period of time. Stick to your goals and work towards achieving them before the time you stated. Goals will definitely make you a better individual and make you more focused.

5. Spend your time wisely

How you spend your time is very important. Do not spend your time on trivial activities. Spend more time on activities that will mold you into being a better individual.

Learn to delegate your tasks when you have too much to handle. Seek assignment help when necessary and make the best use of technology to accomplish your tasks faster. Time management skills are essential to bringing out the best in you, and even after the best in you starts to manifest itself.

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6. Take up new challenges

Opportunities lie in challenges. Never be afraid of failure, so that you then fail to take up new challenges. Instead, you should be ready to explore other options and expand your comfort zone. Don’t run away from the herculean task because these tasks will mold you into a better person. Be daring in your attitude, by doing things that appear difficult.

7. Let go of past failures

Past failures will hold you down if you don’t let go of them. You only need to learn from your mistakes by making better decisions in the future. All the great people you know have also encountered failure at one time or another.

8. Take time to discover your strengths

In an attempt to become your best self, you have to discover your strengths and use them. Pay attention to yourself to see where your strengths lie. The starting point for the emergence of the best version of yourself is at the level of self-discovery. Whatever your strengths are, capitalize on them, as you gradually become your best self.

Some troubles you might face in the process and how to overcome them

Roads that lead to amazing places are not always smooth and you may encounter some problems while trying to be your best self. Here are some of the common troubles people face in the process and the possible solution to each of the problems:

1. Finding it difficult to believe in yourself

You have probably pictured yourself as being a nobody for so long, and now you wish to suddenly change that mental image of yourself and start believing in yourself. You may find it difficult to achieve this in a day, but you only need to give it a little bit of time. During this time, make a list of your abilities and go through it. You will discover you aren’t doing the wrong thing to believe in yourself.

2. Your courage is failing you

Your courage may fail you and you may feel like giving up the quest of becoming your best self. The change in your way of doing things is the root cause. Try to identify what new thing makes you feel like giving up and devise a way of performing well at it. If for instance, it is one of the new and daring tasks which you have adopted that is making you feel uncomfortable, consider training on how to perform the task in a way that requires less effort.

3. Fear coming to your mind

Fear is a foe and you must learn to overcome it. Fear can come into your mind and then you start to imagine unhelpful outcomes. Fear may suggest to you that you will soon give up the whole process or reduce your commitment to it. Fear is nothing but a waste of time. Try to identify the cause of the fear and address it from its origin. If you still sense the fear after many attempts to subdue the fear, seek counsel from your friends, family or from an expert.

4. Finding it difficult to discover your strengths

Your strengths appear to be completely hidden or perhaps you think you don’t have any at all. Maybe you aren’t using the right method to discover it. You may not be too sensitive to yourself and that is making you think you lack special strengths within you. In such situations, your friends and your family can be of great help. It’s possible they have identified your strengths. Seek their opinion and take note of what they have to say about your strengths.

5. Having problems noticing changes between the old you and the new you

If after some weeks of carefully following the guide, you haven’t noticed any change, your mind begins to have some queries and you begin to wonder why? I strongly believe that changes should be clearly visible after about two weeks of rigorously working towards becoming your best self. If you, therefore, haven’t noticed any change, then I suggest highlighting your recent success, or development, and carefully compare it with the development you used to have in the past. I’m sure you will notice an improvement.

Wrapping up

You will definitely have more success, achievement and fulfillment to record, the moment you become your best self. You only have a few things to follow and a few steps to take per day, in order to achieve this. Be determined to bring out the best in you today.

6 thoughts on “The Complete Guide to Becoming Your Best Self”
  1. High Pappa Lora vs Low Pappa Hira? Sometimes, it just may not be you?

    LBRC- The current NOLA Council? Huey Long 101 for Negroes who require at least  2hrs. to watch 60 min., Low Pappa Hira vs High Pappa Lora?

    1. Huey explained it like this- Low Pappa Hira and High Pappa Lora were at a Bar- B- Q.

    2. High Pappa Lora always takes everything from “The Middle Up”, speaking Hog!

    3. Low Pappa Hira always takes everything from “The Middle Down”.

    4. A Barbequed Hog was laying on the table looking nice and tasty.

    5. High Pappa Lora Never stays around long, just like your Politicos and Celebrity Apostate Preachers, your frequent flyer ilk, just long enough to stroke some low self esteems, egos and Sycophants. Time to depart and…- High Pappa Lora takes their share of ‘Dat Hog from “The Top Up”/ Hog Head Cheese et al (Probably What Really Set off Low Pappa Hira The Negro), which leaves “The Middle Down” for everybody else! What happens next?

    a. Low Pappa Hira says, “Come back ‘hea High Pappa Lora and put ‘sum ‘ah ‘Dat Bar- B- Q back on ‘Dat Table! After all, what we ‘Sposed to eat, Party and Buck Dance with”?

    b. High Pappa Lora appeared indignant initially, then reluctantly complied! 

    6. NOLA Politicos pretend to commensurate Low Pappa Hira’s Caste. Yet, they vote themselves 100% raises, from “The Middle Up”! Low Pappa Hiras have short memories! Look at how easily Kira Orange won election with key endorsements from Coons! Then Low Pappa Hira wonders how 10k (And Growing) so- called “Opportunity Youth” ends up on I- 10 doing “Cart Wheels” on “Stolen” ATV’S at High Noon. After The RSD fired approx. 7k Certified Black Teachers and “Support Staff”, Low Pappa Hira had no choice but to except RSD “Choice” meaning a “Failing D or C” Public School! 99,999% of High Pappa Lora’s kids attend an A or B Public School or De Facto “Private Charter” with public “Vouchers”, generally in Caucasion centered areas, Commercial or otherwise. Most Negro RSD Schools? Guess!!! Nearly all are D and F! You can’t make this up!!!

    7. If it takes you at least 2 hrs. to watch 60 min., you’re still clueless! Therefore, your favorite hobby is probably sitting on your ‘Glute complaining! Where are your kids,  I- 10 or in “The Quarter”? How fast are “Radio Waves”, 1,100 ft. Per sec., sound? Does  NOPD have Radios, other strategies? Just can’t catch ’em, pun intended?

    a. In The Movie, “Planet of The Apes”, it only took 1 so- called Low Pappa Hira to say,  “No”! 

    b. NOLA Politicos are really Low Pappa Hira, except High Pappa Lora tells them, “You’re different”! Yeah right!

    c. What happened in Puerto Rico 2019? The same should happen in NOLA 2019! Politicos have bid you out and are planning more pain! Whether Gentrification, Taxes, Fees, More City Park Driving Ranges plus Debt Assumptions? More “Pumping to The River” weakeniing Levees and “Increasing Water Levels (Duh?) and yada…, 

    d. There is a pending “Economic Crisis” on The Horizon and Low Pappa Hira’s Service Industry Salaries ain’t ‘gonna cut it! Uh oh! Caucasions “and” Blacks are preparing for an SHTF Event! It’ll be a little different than the movies! ‘Dats for The Criminally inclined ilk! 

    Recommendation? Tell High Pappa Lora, generally not NOLA. proper, especially Metairie, to bring back sum ‘ah ‘Dat Bar- B- Q back, then fill your faces now! When “The Crisis” hit, at least you’ll start out with a Full Tank! Wished we could say the same about what’s inside some heads, for their kid’s sake! 

    Peace Out…

  2. You might perceive this insensitive?

    LBRC- Where You Are is Your IQ Norm! You might perceive this insensitive!?  

    MA/ CA x 100 = IQ (Einstein comprehended at 166, lots comprehend at 66)! Haters? 

    1. Without intentionally trying to insult others, IQ is a relevant aspect of “Quality of Life issues”!!! Problematic is- A “Low” IQ is hardly competent to comprehend what is beyond its ability to do so! How do you convince a 66 Quality of Life, ‘Dat 166 is better and Healthier? A Doberman less tolerant of abuse? Why? Of all dogs, a Doberman ranks High in Dog IQ! 

    2. What does ignorance (Do not know or incapable of learning) do when in conflict with knowledge, facts and/or data?

    a. Pretend to be infallible

    b. Threaten

    c. Seek safety in numbers aka “Genius is Rare” and “Ignorance has Legions”!!!

    3. Have you ever heard it said- “He or she has the mind of a child”? Well…, IQ is a relative description of those who fail to meet or exceede abilities keeping in pace with those of similiar age groupings (Thievies?). For example, if you’re 18 yrs. of age, and the majority of your age grouping is living on their own and providing fundamental necessities for family legally, and you can’t? Your IQ is whacked (Ebonics) in terms of what others in your age grouping are capable aka “Chronological Age”!  Where you are “Mentally” aka your “Mental Age” establishes your place! An individual with a Chronological Age of 18 and a Mental Age of 8 is hardly interested in seeking employment which provides food on the table for others, legally or via work, including family and/or siblings. Those who can, legally, have an “Exceptional” or high IQ with respect to  “Mental Age” abilities! Further, kids who analyze and capable of solving problems at “Collegiate” levels, being adolescents or yet at ages below what is considered average college age, are considered Gifted, Genius, Above Aberage and/or high IQ! 

    4. IQ generally, does not exceed 15 Points from Birth to Death in range, + or – Ranges. 

    5. What High IQ is not, generally? Rote, Polite, Memorization, Conformist, ‘Stuntun, Reputation, Sloggard, Non Evidence, Non Productive, Copy Cat and yada… 

    (Disclaimer about Facts: If you say 1 + 1= 2 (Base 10), it is a “Fact” this is what you said! Facts do not make truth! Verification tends to Truth, tends to What is comprehended via “Time and Space” or “Relativity”! Sorry for ‘Dat!!! Stay tunned…

    6. What High IQ is, generally? “Non Conformist, Productive, Perceived Arrogance, Non Rote, Impolite, Active, Unnecessarily and incessantly probing, analytical beyond average, purpose driven, Peer Groupings immune- even among Genius, ostracised, often “Isolated” and yada…

    6. While not absolutely immune to “Manchurian Candidate- ism”, High IQ Ranges are not easily accessible or “Propaganda” influenced with respect to vulnerablability! Low IQ Ranges are (They operate in belief minus investigation, little to no acedemic experiences)! 

    7. “Never equate intelligence with education”! They’re related with little to no high  “Correlation Co- Efficients!  The Skinny- 

    a. Lots of College Educated Fools nearly equivalent to Drop Outs and/or Street Wise Scholars aka “Non Certified”! 

    b. The Pied Pipper Theory of Genius? The Genius of Influence drove Mental Ages (Adolescents) over The Cliff! The Genius of Mental Age warned Peers and told the Pipper “No”! “Others tell them too and they do”! “A Few say ‘whoa and say no”! Think Noah? Of 8 Million, only 8 got saved (Noah/Wife, Shem/Wife, Ham/Wife, Japheth/Wife- Is ‘Dis ‘Thang on!!! What’s different in 2019? 

    Peace Out…

  3. Overcomming Some Other Obstacles?
    LBRC- Negro Schools Teach? DARPA manufactures?  A Negro Criminal is, besides Slave- at- Large? By design? However and equally dangerous is the common Negro Fool and attention seeking “Loud Mouth” (Some at Average Decibels), evidence immune, by design! Promulgating Stupidity and advocating “Knowledge” and Thinking,  esoecially 504, boring and arduous?  

    Beware of “Robo Negro” and The Designer 2019 Coon”! DARPA views Fool an Algorithim, assisted via ChemTrails, Radio Frequences, Nano plus yada… (Lots of Yada…)! DNA can be “Re- Programmed” via Solfeggio Scales, already accomplished in labs (Easy Research)! Fantasy Island? Avoid The Fool(s) (The Most High Also Says So/Proverbs)!!! 

    Lots is common knowledge and there are lots more, about what Eisenhower said and fostered! “The Global Useless Class”? According to Kissenger (Committee on Foreign Relations), “The Useless Eater”/Google it)! Evidence? 

    Building Data? Start here>>>

    Annie Jacabsen: Inside DARPA: The Pentagon’s Brain>>>

    Urban Warfare (Welcome to 5G, HAARP, AI, Weaponized Fools and House of Alice at CERN! “The Global Useless Class”? Now who’s Dat? Got a mirror? Next Part of Many>>> 

    (Lagnippe) How Thomas Friedman (NY Times) and The Special “Genius” of Yuval Noah Harari Think About The Future of Humanity (Must See in Entirety) >>>

    You Decide!- Peace Out…

  4. What you sowed in grounds you are reaping! And will…, some “Eternal”!
    LBRC- Why Do Negro Politicos and Apostate Preachers, others believe impunity for Abusing,  Deceiving you? Why do “You” Acquience so easily, worship with your votes, other akin to “Barabus voters” and seek their “Favor”?

    1. Read, “Comprehend”, Satanic Operations like “Operation Paper Clip”, questions?  

    2. Now? Was “The Most High” kidding when He said, “What you do to The Least of Thee, you do unto Me”? You delude “Yourself” and lie again to claim The Most High! 

    3. True, False? “A Man sat across “A Great Gulf Fixed” and begged for a chance to warn others. For any destined there as well, it’s too late to repent for “Enternity” once convicted! What “sane” mind takes ‘Dat chance? Yet? Deceitful, lying Negroe Politicos and Apostate Preachers, ubiquitous, do everyday (Judgement will begin with “you”)! By design and “Training”, “De Facto” you worship, run with or desire too- serve ‘Massa, no less a 2019 Plantation Overseer! Question? What happened when Judas realized he lost his “Soul” for “Eternity”? Ans. “He threw his 32 pieces into the street”!!! ‘Dat should scare the “Hell” out of any being or “Entitity”, to include but not limited to a chair, auto, dirt, whore/hoe, stick, fly..- Certainly a lying, deceiving, filthy, ‘stuntun Council Person, Representative, Apostate Preacher, Frequent Flyer/Jet Owner supported by ‘Po Souls (The Median Net Worth of Negroes in America is less than what it takes to purchase “A Box Spring and Mattress” cash to rest their beat down Souls)! Believe this- Negro Apostate Preachers and Politicans delude themselves, thinking they won’t end up doing what Judas did with “his” Filthy Lucree!!! Trust ‘Dis (Our Best Ebonics!)- When these lying, worldly ambitious, deceitful, Negro beat down taxing guru artist (At The Behest of  Satanic Entities) and yada…, before a Nano Sec., when you realize your betrayal has “Fixed” your “Eternal” doom, too late to repent! “What does it profit to gain a filthy world and lose your soul” for Eternity! 

    4. NEWSFLASH!- You’ve fooled “Most” with your deceit and lies! “Most” is not “All”,  certainly not “The 1″, ‘Dat matters” who’ll “Judge” Eternal!!! Negroes are easy targets, right! Adam, Lillith, Eve, Lost Tribes, proved it (Even Evil Concedes, “Original” man and woman were “Dominant”, not “Recessive” DNA!!! Only “Ignorance” says otherwise!

    5. The Book of Enoch describes the “Physical” appearence of Evil Agents and “Fallen Angels”, why it was removed and banned! No clue? The Most High endorses  “Ignorance”? “Your” Ignorance is what dooms you and most certainly will for “Eternity”! You think impunity? Yeah rught! Gravity is everywhere, even deep in Space! Physics says- Escape Velocity (Where you are), not escape Gravity! Eternity in Hell has no Escape Velocity!!! Is ‘Dis ‘Thang on? 

    6. Good News? Those who subject themselves to “Beat Downs” advocating for “The Least of Thee” aka The Most High Who is Thee? At the point where these Santanic Agents and their “Complicit” Negroes and others cast their silver into Filthy streets in  America and/or any other world, a New Jerusalem will…? No clue aka “Ignorant”? Uh oh…

    7. Ends draw even closer, this Dispensation!!! No Gold? “Count it all blessings”!!! btw- “His” has now and always will, not ‘Dat we are worthy! He “Never” failed to prepare “Clean” Tables for us “In The Midst of Enemies”, no fear! Strong enemies are our witness!!! Evil has and is already lost! Why save us? “He” Chooses Who “He” Will!!! Abba Father, “THANK YOU”!!!


  5. Your Bank? Who’s Following?

    LBRC- There is a “Financial Crisis” at The Door/Hurricane to Follow! Uh oh!!! In comming weeks, you will hear talk about “War”, Currency Devaluations, Failure at Bond Auctions aka nobody is buying USA Debt (Bonds). “The Inverted Yield Curve”?  “Negative Interest Rates”? Stop Buck Dancing for a sec.! Diversions?  

    A Skinny, sort of-

    1. #45 is a “Stooge”! So- called Elites “Puppet” him! Meaning-

    a. Deregulate “Everything” (Business, Banking, Environmental (Poison The Useless Eaters and Takers who never give or contribute)! Dodd/ Frank is a sham, whereby executives “Certifiy Books” to investors. Corporations are Zombies and have already transferred “Risk” to investors via “Buy Backs”! 

    2. Risk for losses have now been transferred sufficiently! IRA Accounts aka “Your Pensions (Who invest in Mutual Funds) will vanish aka Stolen! TARP never ended! Who follows or understands their “Mutual Fund” transactions? Too busy Buck Dancing? Mustual Funds are controlled by “Non Fidiciaries”, those who seldom follow the advice they give you. 

    3. Here’s what’s “Critical” for everybody, to include but not limited to Sect. 8, WIC, Criminals, The Honest and The Poor/’Po, ignorant/’Ignant, Middle Class/’Stuntun…

    *Negative Interest Rates*? What’s Dat? Think?

    1. I ask you for a loan of $10 (Money in a Bank is Loaning The Bank. A Grade K- 12 “Kissinger so- called Useless Eating Thief never learned this”!). Then I tell you, I’ll give you $5 back in 5yrs., then consider the Loan Paid in Full! Is ‘Dat a good deal for you? 

    2. When you hear Banks talking about a “Cashless Society” and “Negative Interest Rates”, here’s what you’re hearing-

    a. Banks will begin draining cash from your Savings and Checking Accounts until depleted. How? Minimum Balance Standards and/or steep “Service Charges”, increased Over Draft Charges which when your Checking Balance goes $0, your Savings will be debited automatically without your consent and increased fees will follow until your savings balances read zero. All done “Digitally” because your cash will be!!!

    b. Cash will inevitability be banned! Why? Lots of reasons including cashless transactions can be tracked efficiently, the rich aren’t tracked! Also, taxes to fund cities in crisis can easily be deducted via a “Button Push” without your consent! Cashless  transactions limit your ability to purchase “Metal Currencies” and personal items (5G Big Brother) aka fewer “Real Tangible Assets” for “Retards”, sorry? “Private Transactions”? Digital is easily manipulated and  “Hacked”! Banks, others, LLC limit liabilities! Yada…

    3. Experts are predicting a “Greatest Depression” all time within 3 yrs., weeks, hrs.! When you hear “Reset”, it’s time! Maybe tomorrow!

    4. You’ve voted poorly and the Politicos you worship serve their ambitions, donors and family. Afterwards, they get jobs with ‘Massa after their Political Careers end! They kiss the ‘Glutes of powerful corporations and “Blow Smoke Up Your ‘Glute, then stroke your poor self esteem and ego with BS!

    5. You’re so dumbed down, you praise these ‘shisters who easily dupe! Never Brilliance, just a ton of BS which Baffle ‘Simps! They urinate on you and you think its rain! Sorry…? You never demanded accountability or deliverables from Politicians or Preachers! Caucasion Preachers deliver on “Supremacy”, why you worship their “Hypocracy” and Spaces (Willie Lynch!)! Everybody tells you, “I’m looking into it! Yeah right! Prepare!!!  Peace Out…

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