Sara McCord,

  • Yesterday was Oprah Winfrey’s 66th birthday. 
  • In 2017, she delivered a college commencement speech that revealed what she called “the secret to her success,” and the three steps to achieve it. 
  • The secret is “the power of service” — combining self-discovery with your unique talents to discover what you have to offer the world.

In 2017, Oprah Winfrey delivered the commencement address at Smith College. And when Winfrey, who rose from humble beginnings to become a media trailblazer and billionaire, said ” … that truly is the secret to my success,” it’s fair to say we all wanted to know what exactly she was referring to.

The secret, she explained, is “the power of service.” But you have to hear her out or risk believing she thinks success equals serving others.

Rather, she goes on to recall how, when she asserted that she’d “only do shows that were in alignment with [her] truth,” she became truly successful. She references best-selling author Gary Zukav, who believes that you have to be aware of what you’re good at and what you’re therefore meant to do — that’s what you’re in service of.

In other words, she’s not making a point about selflessness: She’s talking about self-discovery.

The question that Winfrey would have each of us ask ourselves is: How can I be used? Translation: What are the unique talents I have to offer? What am I specifically meant to be doing?

In many ways, her speech is the roadmap to follow the age-old advice to do what you love.

Step 1: Believe in the “why”

FILE PHOTO: Oprah Winfrey takes part in the Women In The World Summit in New York City, U.S., April 10, 2019. REUTERS/Caitlin Ochs/File Photo
Oprah Winfrey takes part in the Women In The World Summit in New York.

Believe in the “why” behind whatever it is you do. You have to believe you’re doing something meaningful.

Step 2: Embrace your uniqueness

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Oprah Winfrey.

Find your unique talents and invest your whole self “in service” of your goals. You shouldn’t feel like you could do your work mindlessly, you should be actively using your gifts.

Step 3 : Prioritize self-care

FILE - In this Nov. 29, 2018 file photo, Oprah Winfrey smiles during a tribute to Nelson Mandela and promoting gender equality event at University of Johannesburg in Soweto, South Africa.  Winfrey surprised the Maui Humane Society with a visit to thank the organization for evacuating animals during a wildfire. The Maui News reported Saturday, July 13, 2019, that Winfrey is a part-time Maui resident who only visited briefly Saturday, thanking a volunteer and taking a photo outside with the organization’s sign. A Maui Humane Society official says Winfrey is a society supporter.  (AP Photo/Themba Hadebe, File)
Oprah Winfrey smiles during a tribute to Nelson Mandela and promoting gender equality event at University of Johannesburg in Soweto, South Africa.

Prioritize self-care. If you put yourself last and burn out, you won’t have anything left for others, let alone the goals you’re striving to achieve.

That’s how, according to Oprah Winfrey, you too will find “fulfillment” — which is how she defines success.

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