By Miles Carter
Moments of national tension have a way of pulling people into constant reaction.
Right now, many Black Americans are watching disturbing images circulate daily. Immigration enforcement. Public confrontations. Viral outrage. Competing narratives. Each one demands an emotional response.
However, reacting is not the same as responding.
In unstable moments, the most valuable skill is discernment — the ability to process information without surrendering clarity.
Why Discernment Matters Right Now
Information moves faster than understanding.
Social media rewards immediacy, not accuracy. News cycles compress complex issues into short clips. As a result, many people absorb stress before they absorb facts.
That pattern has consequences.
When discernment is absent:
- Anxiety increases
- Anger spreads
- Judgment weakens
- Decision-making suffers
Discernment protects against emotional hijacking.
Reaction Feels Powerful — Until It Isn’t
Reacting feels active. It feels engaged. It feels righteous.
Yet reaction often places control elsewhere.
People who react constantly:
- Speak before thinking
- Share information without context
- Internalize fear that does not belong to them
- Carry stress they cannot resolve
Discernment slows the process. It creates space between stimulus and belief.
That space is where agency lives.

Black History Teaches This Lesson Clearly
Black communities have always lived close to instability.
Because of that reality, survival has required emotional intelligence as much as physical endurance. Elders taught restraint not as submission, but as strategy.
Knowing when to speak.
Knowing when to move.
And knowing when to stay quiet and observe.
Discernment has never meant disengagement. It has meant control.
What Discernment Looks Like in Practice
Discernment is not abstract. It is behavioral.
It looks like:
- Verifying before sharing
- Limiting exposure to distressing content
- Separating empathy from personal panic
- Refusing to let outrage dictate your day
This does not mean ignoring injustice. It means refusing to let chaos dominate your nervous system.
Why Emotional Discipline Is a Form of Power
People often confuse emotional intensity with commitment.
They are not the same.
Emotional discipline allows people to:
- Think clearly under pressure
- Protect their mental health
- Show up consistently for family and work
- Engage issues without being consumed by them
Power is not loud. It is steady.
Choosing Stability in Unstable Times
No individual controls national policy or media cycles alone. Everyone controls their internal response.
Choosing discernment is choosing longevity.
It allows people to stay informed without becoming overwhelmed. It preserves clarity in moments designed to fracture attention and emotion.
In a world that profits from reaction, discernment is resistance.
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Unstable times reveal more than external conflict. They reveal internal habits.
Those who cultivate discernment protect their peace, sharpen their judgment, and remain capable of action when it matters most.
That is not avoidance.
That is preparation.
TL;DR — The Wednesday Takeaway
- Reaction drains clarity
- Discernment protects mental health
- Emotional discipline is a survival skill
- Stability is a choice
- Control begins internally